Knives have been an integral tool for humans since the dark depths of prehistory, so it’s no surprise that superstitions around them persist. While there are various types of superstitions surrounding knives, some of the most widespread center on the gifting of knives.
Across several cultures, gifting a knife carries a connotation of separation or severance. Since a knife’s use is to cut, the gift is seen as “cutting” the ties of the relationship. This belief shows up in the UK, Germany, and China, among others. In order to avoid this, some cultures expect that the recipient of a knife give a coin to the giver. The coin does not have to be of equal value, as it is purely a symbolic gesture to transform the gift into a “transaction”. Sometimes the giver of the knife will even also give a coin to the recipient for this purpose. This tradition is carried on even today among some knife enthusiasts.
However, this is not a tradition that I encountered until I dove into the world of the online knife community. I grew up in a family that enjoyed and used knives, and saw many knives given as gifts without any hint of superstition. In fact, I would call my dad a prolific giver of knives. I remember him giving me knives when he’d come home from trips, and giving Swiss Army style knives with his business info engraved on them to clients. My brothers and I have also given each other many knives throughout the years, with some of them being among the most prized in my collection. I gave engraved knives to my groomsmen for my wedding. My wife has given me knives that I adore. All this, and no supernatural cutting of ties that I’ve noticed!
That said, I think there is room for superstition and ritual in today’s overly grounded world. While I might not observe this particular ritual, I respect it. I just really enjoy sharing my love of knives, and don’t feel the need for anything in return beyond the satisfaction of knowing the recipient will appreciate the gift.
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